Words are powerful. The subtle differences in the language and words we use are directly connected to how we feel, our attitude, and ultimately our success. When you use positive language, whether talking to others or, in your own self-talk your outlook tends to become positive. And of course, as in my case, using negative words will have just the opposite effect.
We often forget the impact our words have on the people around us as well. One negative statement by a leader or manager can impact the performance of an entire team. Negative words generate negative feelings in your family and friends. The ripple effect from a single negative conversation can bring you and everyone around you down. Words are powerful because they take feelings of anger, fear, insecurity, and doubt from inside of you and make those feelings tangible and real.
On the other hand, positive words have the reverse effect. Positive words, said out loud, lift you and everyone around you up. Positive words quickly stamp out negative self-talk and change your poor attitude.
In many ways the language we use is tied to the law of attraction which states that we tend to attract or experience that which we think about. In other words, one of the secrets of happiness and success is keeping your mind focused on what you want rather than what you don’t want.